Happiness is an inside job. We are responsible for our feelings, we are responsible for the way we interpret the events in our environment, how we choose to see ourselves, how we turn the perceived reality into a story in our minds.
But this way of thinking can sometimes be more harmful than constructive.
Whereas it is true, that we create our own reality and can influence the experiences we have, there are still some grounds that are more fertile for us than others.
Not all soil has the same effect on you